Monday, May 30, 2011

Da-dee

"da-dee" is officially part of Matthew's vocabulary. He has been working on it for a while and can now, with fair accuracy and repeatability, assign "da-dee" to me. He can knows that there is a difference between mommy and daddy (although I still get "mom-mee" a bunch) and the distinction is starting to solidify. "doey" is still more consistent than either of these, and has come to mean any cat, but mostly his cats: Joey and Patches.

Wednesday, May 11, 2011

Mother's Day at the Forks

The forks seems to be a great place for pictures. We went there on Mother's day to putter around and have dinner. Matthew is quite into pasta, and the OSF has some of the best. We have been there lots recently.

Here are some pics of Matthew and Mom


Words

Along with signing more, Matthew is saying more, and we have officially declared him to have a vocabulary. He has quite a few regular sounds, but the "words" he has are different that because they are associated fairly regularly with consistent objects or people. It is funny to watch him figure out words. Given that he has so few, a word must mean a lot, so whereas we have very specific meanings, his are quite broad. And instead of coming up with new words (new words are hard!) he just makes do with the words he has by broadening the definition (see "doey") . His current language set includes, in order of appearance:

"uh oh". Not really a word, but definitely an expression with a meaning - that being "something that is not what it should be - often because I made it that way". As in, "I dropped the book on the floor": "uh-oh", or "I threw my food on the floor": "uh-oh". This was technically his first sound with consistent discernible meaning, but most kids get this one early and it isn't really a word per-se. So we are going to give the honour of first word to "mum-mee"

"Mum-mee". This one is very clear and is consistently associated with Kristine and pictures of Kristine. However I am also included in this sometimes. "Da-dee" is very close to being part of the lexicon, but it is not consistent enough yet - though he does say it and it is associated with me.

"doey". Also very clear, and used regularly to refer to Joey... and Patches, and cats, and sometimes animals in general. Like I said, when you only have 5 words, you make them work for ya. We were in Superstore and he went tearing down the isle (why walk when you can run... everywhere!) and came to a stop in front of a huge bag of cat food with a big picture of a cat on it. He proudly turned to me and pointed at the bag declaring "doey!".

"nana". the most consistent and specific of all: banana.

"ba-boo". Bottle. This one is fairly new. he uses it intermittently, but only associated with his bottle.

If you include his signs, he also has language for "more", "milk", "wash hands", "hot", "bye", "all done" and of course the ubiquitous "that" which is just pointing. The degree to which 'that' is important is conveyed by the earnestness of the point, or, the exceedingly annoying "unuhhh!!! uuuhhhh!! uuuhhh!!".

But what he can communicate to us is far outstripped by what he understands. He can respond to fairly complex instructions, like "go find mommy" or "go get your shoes and jacket because we need to go". Basically we talk to him like a real person and he responds. It is fascinating. Also dangerous because we have to watch what we say now. I don't really want his next word to be "oh crap".

Tuesday, May 10, 2011

Matthew's Sign Language Dictionary

This winter, Matthew and I took a baby sign language course with Karen from WeeHands. We've been signing a bunch of words at home with him, but as of yet, he is only signing back a few. These are some of the signs in Matthew's repertoire. I think he understands several others, but he just doesn't feel the need to use them himself...yet.

"wash your hands":

"more":




"hot":
This sign has morphed a little bit. It used to be just for hot things, but now he uses it to tell us that something is hot, the light is bright, that there is danger nearby or just a general temperature variance.





"All Done!"

He has a few other signs too like "bye-bye" (as most kids do) and "milk" which is used for milk, water, the fact that he is thirsty or that someone else is thirsty and is taking a drink. This is a tricky one to catch in a picture though, so we'll keep working on that one. You can click here to see him do it a few months ago. It was his first sign.

Oh, and he blows kisses:

"mmm-bahhh!"