There are signposts throughout life that tell you where to go, where you have been, or where you are about to go. Sometimes they are subtle, sometimes obvious, sometimes a great big neon flashing sign with bells and arrows. This was one of the latter. In 9 months (give or take) we will transition (read instantly shift) from being a couple to being parents. As with most first timers, we have absolutely no idea what we are getting into. Sure, we will read books, watch videos, receive advice (solicited and not) and eventually become somewhat comfortable in our belief that we are ready, but really, nothing can actually prepare you. We will watch and wonder why people who have kids start to smirk or smile knowingly, sometimes with wistful regret that they are past that stage, but usually with something that is a mixture of fondness and pitty, as we share our exciting news. We will eventually figure out why. But for now, before the news is public, before anyone besides us knows, while it is still our news, and our secret, we sit together and stare and these two pink lines that speak louder than any words can: something big is about to happen, and your world is about to change.
